A pet can teach a child almost every life skill in the book, particularly how to love unconditionally – but you’ll need to lend a helping hand.

According to Glynne Anderson, also known as the Pet Shrink, there’s no given age for a child to be pet-ready. As soon as he or she starts showing signs of responsibility, is really keen on having a little friend, and is prepared to pick up land mines, the time is right. But it’s up to mom and dad to make sure that a healthy bond forms between the child and animal. Courtesy, care and tenderness need to be part of every child’s education, and a puppy is ideal for helping him or her to learn these values.

• Start by teaching your child to play quiet, educational games with his or her puppy, such as teaching it basic instructions like ‘sit’, ‘lie’ and ‘roll over’.
• Short walks, socialisation classes, bathing, brushing and feeding can also be tackled as fun exercises.
• Avoid games that overexcite the puppy. Screaming and wildly running around will teach him or her to play rough and that can only end in tears – remember, even little dogs have 42 sharp teeth and 18 sharp nails, and little people only have soft skin to protect them.

‘Teach your child to have respect for all living things from an early age, whether it’s a puppy or a kitten, or a brother or sister. You have to serve as a role model at all times, and explain that animals feel pain and bleed just like people do. Immediately call a halt to the slightest sign of cruelty or abuse,’ says Glynne.

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